Thursday, February 24, 2011

[Life, Love] Questions Answered

I was asked the following question, and instead of replying in a comment I figured I'd answer right here... Since I'm bound to be very wordy and will take up plenty of space. :)

The question(s):
"with a love like this, do you feel like i do, that you just want to jump in with both feet? somehow you just know it will work, that it's meant to be? what IS that feeling?! do you believe in soulmates?"

The answer(s):
Honestly, I have never felt so... RIGHT... So IN THE RIGHT PLACE... as I do right now. Someone who actually understands me and my quirks... who actually GETS that I'm not perfect and accepts that and doesn't expect me to be any other way. Someone who is as fiercely loyal and loving as I am has fallen into my lap almost magically (though we don't believe in magic).

We have had many discussions on topics that other people in similar timelines wouldn't be capable of and both have agreed that this is it... That this is the "will work no matter what" option that we've both been looking for, and that while there may be rough times that as long as we can communicate with each other that we'll get through anything we have in our way.

Do I believe in "soulmates"? Well, I don't think either of us do. Or rather, I don't think either of us DID before this. We don't use that word because we don't believe in superstition or the like; however, the only explanation I can give (to kind of put it into words) is related to the quantum theory of entanglement... And it's like all of our quantum elements are entangled with one-another. It's really quite amazing... We actually played a nice little game yesterday of "guess what"... She guessed what I ate for lunch in two guesses. The first guess was a place we'd talked about before, the second guess was a place we'd never spoken of... I had her elaborate on what I had on my sandwich. She missed only one item. ;) (She added jalepenos, but I forego jalepenos on my sandwiches for peppercinis and chipolte sauce :) ).

She then thought it would be fun to turn it around... And as soon as I started focusing, I started literally tasting cocoa powder... Like the kind you get in the little pouches. I ignored that, because obviously she couldn't be eating that stuff. I narrow it down to an option of a chocolate candybar and hot chocolate. I guess the hot chocolate. She says "Close." And I follow up with "Well, then I'm going to guess a mocha latte." Ding, ding.

Now, this under normal circumstances would be interesting alone... But the fact that we're thousands of miles away and have yet to touch each other. It's just... phenomenal.

We are certainly a team of 2.

I hope that answers your question thoroughly. Always happy to answer questions... I guess I'm a glutton for motivation (I AM, after all, a hell of a procrastinator... I think Morgan and I will be fighting for that title amongst each other for a long time to come).

Take care,
B

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